Am I wrong for feeling uneasy about a girl who is considering going back to a guy who hit her? Not play hit, I mean punched. But this partially falls in line with relationship hypocrisy. I DON'T LIKE IT. So many people complain about being hurt when some of them were asking for it. I know there is such thing as being naive, but not this late in the game you know? Like people who dog their significant other all the time but swear they respect them. Why do that? Can't that be handled in private? It only makes people think it's based on physical things if they hate everything about the other person. And I don't understand the attachments some people have to horrible people. Partially may be that their "love" for that person might blind them from the significance of the other person's negativity. Is that? The same ones complaining about putting up with their other are the same ones in love with that person. Breaking up..getting back together...breaking up...getting back together lol. Why should I give advice when it goes through one ear and out the other? People like that are dangerous. Especially with the "we in love after one week" people lol....trust me, I can admit I did that before and it was stupid. I guess the whole point of this post is.....I'm confused. It seems there are different types of love going around too. The 'we in love after a week' love....the 'we love each other simply because everyone else says they are' love, and the real love that was worked at. With so many saying it but not even able to give a single reason why, it makes love seem like a fad or that it is merely a fallacy...or that it's a mockery of what real love is or used to be . It shouldn't be seen that way. Like in the future, not near future, I want my love to be where we don't have to say it everywhere like political propaganda.....be all in people's face like 90's rap videos.....or anything like that -don't get me wrong, you should definitely be proud of the relationship AND trust me I have done that bullshit before- I mean that when someone just looks at you and they can tell. Or when someone hears you talking to the other person they can differentiate between, "aw he loves her" and "aw he fuckin her" because the parallels these days are too close. I just get lost right now. People so fast to chase after having it, it's like money or something. Love isn't formed in a blinking of an eye, but in the length of the gaze. *sorry for my poetic line right there* Where the hell am I going with this post? lol...but anyway yeah...I HATE when people allow themselves to go through so much stuff when they deserve better. I'd rather stop talking about it too....like getting asked advice about it really pissed me off into making this whole post in the first place lol. Telling me how in love with they are with a person who repeatedly does them wrong. YET want to be the main ones complaining about how they hate them. Am I wrong to be uptight about illogical people?
*back to reading The Odyssey by Homer*
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