Really? What do I say to that? -___-

So let me......let me get this straight.  Sex is their way of communicating.  Sex is their way of communicating....opening up....showing more of their personality.  Did yall catch that?  Re-read what I just said.------------Okay now how the hell do I take that?  And yes this deals with me and 'someone'.  What sense does that make?!  You mean they can't just open up and be comfortable after THIS long of talking simply because I haven't f****d her?  That's immature as hell.  AND ANOTHER THING.  The last day and a half, I texted them and I got no response.  Turns out they were having....well.....out of respect let me say "fun" with SOMEONE ELSE!  Really though? lol....AAAND!  Turns out they really were having sex with their ex when they were talking to me.  SERIOUSLY, like people wonder why I don't jump in relationships and stuff.  These are reasons.  I wouldn't do this to someone.  This is why I wanted to wait and FULLY know this person instead of getting in it then finding this out later.  Honestly it hurts a little but what can I do?  Hell, instead of ignoring me.....be up front about it!  But like her friend said, sex is her way of communicating and she didn't want me hurt by her hiding the truth.  She said she often omits the who truth and leaves stuff out.  I can't trust anyone like that as far as relationships go.  This is exactly the stuff I tried to avoid....and I know people were rooting for us and I kind of was too but this is EXACTLY why I was taking my time.  I really learned from last time to fully get the person first.  I'm so annoyed right now.