Well, I have been noticing some things for a little while I wanted to address. Basically dealing with both annoyance and udder stupidity. Like some of the antics guys play on women and some things women play on guys. And quite frankly I'm tired of both scenarios. Let's delve into these subjects shall we?
***This applies to SOME men and women.......not all***
GUYS:
1. The Games: Real talk, a lot of guys do play games. Women don't just get this conception out of nowhere like it's made up. For example, let's say a guy likes a girl. Okay, so that means he should show her right? Not ignore her right? What sense does it make to say, yo...I like you a lot, I'd like to take you out.....but then not talk to her? But then we want to get upset when she feels like she being played with? That's senseless. All I know is if you like somebody not only tell them, but act like it. Like dang, it's not hard. IT'S NOT HARD!Another scenario is fronting. This is a huge problem! lol. Fronting is messed up because no matter how huge the front is, it will always be found out. Now, sometimes the front can last for a long time, but women are good at finding things out. Yeah, act like you're the best guy ever while having a horrible past record and you will get exposed. Simple as that.
NOW THIS IS WHERE I HAVE A PROBLEM!
Let's say a guy really is a good guy right? And he is telling a woman all the right things she wants to hear. He's nice, cares, shows compassion, everything. NOW what if he really is this way? What if he really wouldn't hurt her like she has before?
WELL.....
Now we must attack this. Say the same girl listening to him is saying she hears him, BUT is really ignoring since she already had a guy say the exact same thing and hurt her? Can we say they are to blame when they have a legitimate reason to not believe? Is this not hurting the real good guy when a deceiving guy has stolen his identity? How is one to convince her that he is real?
2. Lying: Guys...............................don't! Simple as that.
3. Cheating: Yeah we always get the bad image that we cheat. And no, not all of us do! Like I have been saying recently. I DON'T GET IT! I couldn't live with myself. And I never will cheat. Like is it an ego test? This also confuses me....real talk. Then after the girl finds out, she is devastated. So in turn, this giver her future insecurities. Which is not fair to the next guy.
Again Guys...........................don't! Simple as that.
P.S. - Don't give her a reason to suspect it either!
4. Respect?: Yeah this one is pretty simple. Basically not respecting a woman is wrong. She wants you to be proud of her. But if she got a past of a guy who disrespected and ignored her, then more likely any guy that shows her the respect she looking could be a trap.
5. Sex: Yuuuup, if she thinks that's all we want, then she will feel we don't care about her character or personality. It's also got to be some emotional connection, not ONLY physical.
Girls
1. The Games: Yes, the games go both ways. And they get old fast. Sometimes women play games either because they think they are always more mature than the guy or they know they have the guy where they know he wont leave no matter what she does. And don't get me started with the jealous game! Sometimes if a guy even flinches his attention from the girl she questions it. Or tells him about a guy she noticed to make him jealous. DON'T.
NOW THIS ONE REALLY GRINDS MY GEARS!
Don't tell me the same thing you tell EVERY guy. Yes guys will read deep into what you say sometimes. And yes some women will lead you on just because they can and want a good laugh? But no guy wants to find out that the same thing you tell him is what you tell everyone else. ESPECIALLY, if you tell him he is in a special category. Like for example, you tell a guy hey I like you. Now okay, he is thinking (if he likes you back), hey I like you too, and she is saying all the (little cute things) guys think women say when they like a guy.
NOW...
Say he sees the same girl tell every other guy the same exact thing. Should he take offense if he didn't know you were that way to begin with? Is he weak for thinking he was special? Is the girl to blame for being manipulative? All of the answers to these questions will be different for each situation. But, it's is very annoying and I HATE it......
2. Lying: Same for you.........DON'T haha
3. NIGGAS?: This is another fail I have been seeing. Don't say "niggas ain't nothing" just because another girl says it. Don't say it because one guy screwed up, because mainly I'm not classified as just a 'nigga'. I'm above that. And yes, I have gone off on someone for saying that. We are not all the same. Pre-judging a guy already builds a perception in your mind that it won't work out. Give him a chance. Next, if you continue to go after the same type of guy, "nigga" (I hate putting nigga in this because I don't say it), then just maybe you will keep getting the same results. Maybe giving another type of guy a chance will save you from more heart ache and more stress. ALSO, the complaining about one race of guys has to stop. All men have their flaws and no man will ever be perfect, no matter the complexion.
4. Nice Guys Are Weak?: Hmmm, I have heard this a couple times. This one will be short. Now, nice guys actually do exist (don't pay attention to them being listed as 'extinct' in science books..lol..). But yeah, sometimes if a guy is too nice, the emotions get played with. Like it will always be okay to screw the guy over and not expect him to say anything. Yes, he will let things build up and be silent for a while (stupid haha) but yes, he gets overlooked from other guys flamboyant stupidity (the way of society). Nice guys are not weak, they just care a lot. If you're used to an ignorant guy, try getting used to a real man.
5. Violence?: Uuuummmm...yeeeeaaaah if a guy hit's you, it's over....simple as that. It's sad when a girl stays with a guy after he hits her..smh..It's also sad I have to address this. Plain and simple: LEAVE.....
Well, this basically wraps up my current mentality. Leave all the comments you want!!!!!!!!!!! Like I always say, everything I say and write is from the heart. Nothing is a game to me.
From your daily neighborhood poet......MDLtheLyricist
1. The Games: Yes, the games go both ways. And they get old fast. Sometimes women play games either because they think they are always more mature than the guy or they know they have the guy where they know he wont leave no matter what she does. And don't get me started with the jealous game! Sometimes if a guy even flinches his attention from the girl she questions it. Or tells him about a guy she noticed to make him jealous. DON'T.
NOW THIS ONE REALLY GRINDS MY GEARS!
Don't tell me the same thing you tell EVERY guy. Yes guys will read deep into what you say sometimes. And yes some women will lead you on just because they can and want a good laugh? But no guy wants to find out that the same thing you tell him is what you tell everyone else. ESPECIALLY, if you tell him he is in a special category. Like for example, you tell a guy hey I like you. Now okay, he is thinking (if he likes you back), hey I like you too, and she is saying all the (little cute things) guys think women say when they like a guy.
NOW...
Say he sees the same girl tell every other guy the same exact thing. Should he take offense if he didn't know you were that way to begin with? Is he weak for thinking he was special? Is the girl to blame for being manipulative? All of the answers to these questions will be different for each situation. But, it's is very annoying and I HATE it......
2. Lying: Same for you.........DON'T haha
3. NIGGAS?: This is another fail I have been seeing. Don't say "niggas ain't nothing" just because another girl says it. Don't say it because one guy screwed up, because mainly I'm not classified as just a 'nigga'. I'm above that. And yes, I have gone off on someone for saying that. We are not all the same. Pre-judging a guy already builds a perception in your mind that it won't work out. Give him a chance. Next, if you continue to go after the same type of guy, "nigga" (I hate putting nigga in this because I don't say it), then just maybe you will keep getting the same results. Maybe giving another type of guy a chance will save you from more heart ache and more stress. ALSO, the complaining about one race of guys has to stop. All men have their flaws and no man will ever be perfect, no matter the complexion.
*** Again I remind you, I say some women and some guys......not all do this***
4. Nice Guys Are Weak?: Hmmm, I have heard this a couple times. This one will be short. Now, nice guys actually do exist (don't pay attention to them being listed as 'extinct' in science books..lol..). But yeah, sometimes if a guy is too nice, the emotions get played with. Like it will always be okay to screw the guy over and not expect him to say anything. Yes, he will let things build up and be silent for a while (stupid haha) but yes, he gets overlooked from other guys flamboyant stupidity (the way of society). Nice guys are not weak, they just care a lot. If you're used to an ignorant guy, try getting used to a real man.
5. Violence?: Uuuummmm...yeeeeaaaah if a guy hit's you, it's over....simple as that. It's sad when a girl stays with a guy after he hits her..smh..It's also sad I have to address this. Plain and simple: LEAVE.....
Well, this basically wraps up my current mentality. Leave all the comments you want!!!!!!!!!!! Like I always say, everything I say and write is from the heart. Nothing is a game to me.
From your daily neighborhood poet......MDLtheLyricist
Speaking nothing but truth bro
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